UPDATE: Please read this with caution.
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Much has been said about soulmates and they are not the fairy tale-ish relationship many would have thought it to be. Soulmates appear in our lives to teach us lessons, and thus, our soulmate relationship may be riddled with challenges, such as the runner-chaser dynamic. Soulmates may or may not stay permanently in our lives.
Yet a lot of people wish to meet their soulmate in their lifetime. Not the soulmate type that was your parent or siblings in other lifetimes. But ones who we were romantically linked to us in the past and is now returning to continue the romance, and help in each other’s soul’s journey.
But should we really be fixated in finding our romantic soul mate? Is it an easier route to everlasting happiness if we are paired with someone who mirrors us in many ways, or are compatible with us?
If finding the soulmate is that important to you, it is likely that you will be spending your whole life searching for someone who fits in your idea of what a soulmate should be – your other self; one that will understand you through and through. Our idea of bliss in a romantic relationship is conflict avoidance. But that is not always the case with a soulmate relationship.
This blog covers the potential soulmate relationship of each zodiac sign in their lifetime.
AQUARIUS
You
You’re headstrong; Aquarius and your dogged belief in justice and fairness can make people around you feel intimidated. Although you are diplomatic, your tendency to seclude yourself from people who you feel are not in the same page as you are gives you that illusion that you are respected by everyone, which is not always the case. Some people around you may despise your aloofness and some may view it as haughtiness.
Them
They come to you when you are busy defending your beliefs. They light a torch for you so that you will see your dark side. Your soulmate may even catch you off guard when they call out one of your biases. This soulmate of yours is also diplomatic, caring, knowledgeable about the world (must be well-travelled or who works behind the scenes of large or important organizations).They are going to teach you lesson about your sense of self.
Challenge
The solid foundation of your beliefs (political, social, economic, religious, cultural) is what puts your relationship in a continuum.
Next Lifetime: You both should you meet again in an environment where there needs truth, justice, higher learning and order.
PISCES
You
Your love is generous and knows no bounds. Sometimes you lack discernment too in whom to give your love and attention to. You have lofty ideals but lack the foresight. You are optimistic but see mirages in the distance. But you always know that your soulmate is just around the corner. You are always guided by your intuition, the spirits and the Divine. You have the spirit that can be detached from the material world.
Them
They have a dark side and needing attention. This person can be dependent on you for wisdom and light. When you meet them they exude mystery and calm. But what you do not know initially is that the person actually has a lot of confusions going on in their lives; and some secrets too that you are asked to uncover. For you Pisces, while this is a challenging relationship, you are not tired of helping your soulmate to evolve spiritually. You will serve as their guide in this lifetime. They can have co-dependency issues with their past relationships or with family members.
Challenge
Both of you are willing to learn from each other, and both of you accept that relationships are part of your life lessons. Pisces is more evolved, spiritually while the partner, although unknowingly, is also intuitive and open to receiving guidance in order to evolve. This soulmate has issues in keeping up with their relationships – they may always end up or break up relationships with others. They may also have the tendency to overlap relationships because they do not know how to end relationships properly. Pisces perseveres in the relationship, and teaches the other how to grow in a relationship and that is by being open and truthful.
Next Lifetime: Both you and your soulmate has trouble letting go of the past. Your nostalgic tendencies and inability at times to close old relationships will be the key to meeting up again in the next life. Meeting at an antique shop or a nostalgia concert, or during a medical mission may be a possibility.
ARIES
You
Aries is ultimately looking for their soulmate, one that mirrors them. Aries feels they can find their soulmate in their midst, among common friends and network. Aries does not look too far though to find their soulmates because they tend to fall in love with their familiar surroundings – their comfort zone, more than the idea of going the extra mile to find their true love. The months of May, April and November are the best months for Aries to be on the mood to look for their soulmates. Aries also tends to be nostalgic and to look back in the past. They may seek that “soulmate” vibe from people from their past.
Them
This person is stable and grounded; and for free-spirited people like Aries can come off as boring or plain. They also not share many things in common with Aries such as some interests, preoccupation, beliefs, fashion. They are not aggressive too but quite focused about their future. They can be attracted by Aries’s jovial disposition and carefree spirit.
Both of you are quite opposite to each other but that is the reason why you mirror each other: One has what the other lacks and this can lead to peculiar attraction. The soulmate brings stability to Aries, while Aries will allow the soulmate to loosen up a bit and enjoy life in the present.
Both have vision of living a quiet, simple life in the future. Both can achieve stability by learning from each other and accepting each other’s differences. Aries’s tenacity in relationships can glue this relationship together in this lifetime.
Challenge
In this lifetime, Aries and their partner can grow old together. They are solidly bonded by their differences and willingness to learn from each other. They are abundant and happy together.
Next Lifetime: Both your respective families can be instrumental for you to find each other again, although you may not be born within the same generation and may have a significant age difference.
TAURUS
You
You are very attractive and sensual, Taurus. You attract people with your sensuality, your wit, your finesse. You also have traditional values that make people gravitate to you. You also command abundance either through hard work or inheritance. You have the ability to reinvent yourself, which adds to your charm.
Them
Your soulmate is as fierce as you are. But the person lacks passion in the romance department. It is because the person keeps their feelings under wraps. In not saying that they are unfeeling or unemotional, but because they are focused on other things, romance is put in the backburner.
The soulmate of yours is a very mental person. They are very analytical and stern. They do not take NO for an answer, and this behavior makes them both endearing and feared. But like you they are also sensual, although covertly. They see things in different perspective. They do not like to be the center of attention. Like you, they are powerful and determined. Their waterloo is love that is why they are not focusing on it. They know that passion can reveal their real selves, and temper their aggressiveness, which they need for their pursuits or advocacies.
When they meet you, marriage is offered late. Their advocacies come first. But you are willing to wait Taurus. Your love and patience can temper your soulmate’s fiery nature. You may be stubborn Taurus, but you exercise calm for your soulmate.
Challenge
There may be jealousy from time to time because you command attention from other people. You and your soulmate match in terms of sensuality. Both of you are strong and determined. Your marriage will be strong but one of you might have to keep a domestic role; and to stick to the traditional binary roles in order to make the union work. This relationship requires a lot of patience and compromise, which will test both your willfulness and stubbornness.
Next Lifetime:
Your soulmate will seek for you for many years before they find you. They will be attracted to you at the first instance. Difference in age, nationality/race, geographic location is probable. But you may also belong to the same industry that caters to food, lifestyle or healthcare.
GEMINI
You
You are friendly, a people-person, and you are not hesitant to voice out your opinions or call out anyone who has no voice of reason. You choose your company and the people you allow into your circle. You are guarded emotionally however outgoing or outspoken you are. You are fierce and can lash out when provoked. You are ambitious yet grounded. You are realistic in your relationships. You are also creative and innovative especially with words and expressions.
Them
Your soulmate is intuitive and mysterious. They do not disclose their thoughts or emotions easily. They hold their opinions for as long as necessary and rarely lash out. For them, indulging in debates or flamboyance is a waste of time and energy. They are sensual, elegant and open to their sexual desires. They are attractive and they can attract both men and women, young or old.
Challenge
Both of you are expressive but in a different way – you, Gemini, is verbally expressive, while your soulmate uses their body language or even facial expressions to convey their feelings. Both of you are not bashful about the limelight and you may share your passion for creativity and solving mysteries. You can teach each other the wisdom of passivity and activity. Gemini can help their soulmate to break down their walls and be more outgoing. The soulmate can help Gemini to temper their emotions.
Next Lifetime: You may chance upon each other during a house or property sale; or in a construction, archaeological or site.
CANCER
You
You are a Jack/Jane of all trades but modest about it. You secretly desire attention . You like to surround yourself with beauty, hence you expect your partner to be good looking and attractive. Your idea of a relationship is one that lasts forever. You are generally choosy when it comes to partners but you also become attached easily or fall in love easily. You have a judgmental side.
Them
They are attractive but may be egotistical. They have a few secrets that they keep to themselves at the start of the relationship and it is usually their social or economic status. They misrepresent themselves to impress you or others. Nevertheless, they have their soft side, which appeals to the Cancerian’s nurturing instincts. They also tend to follow the Cancerian’s demands; they adore the Cancerian’s creativity, kindness, industriousness. Both of you are physically attracted to each other although one may be smarter or more intelligent than the other.
Challenge
Your union will teach you both about simplicity, complacency, patience mutual trust and care for each other.
Next Lifetime: You may meet as schoolmates or as members belonging to the same organization. You will be pitting against each other and may butt heads from time to time. But in the end you will learn to respect each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
LEO
You
You have the sense of exclusivity, you choose your circle, or anything that can be associated with you either people, places or objects because they reflect your reputation. Your image is sacred to you and you only like the finest things in life even though at times, acquiring them may be beyond your means. You are intelligent although sometimes you pretend to be smarter than anyone else, especially in gatherings. You are creative and can be attracted to several people at the same time. You like to travel. You may have a hard time keeping your promise and they are sometimes done to impress someone or to keep their attention.
Them
A cautious person who does not like secrets being kept from them. They are always seeking for the truth, which can make you, Leo, feel smothered and your boundaries crossed. They may have the tendency to be combative especially when you assert your independence. They are not as attractive in your standards but their feisty spirit intrigues you. They are independent and intelligent or witty. They are problem solvers and analytical, which complement your being impulsive in your judgements. They can help you make smart choices in life.
Challenge
Your relationship has co-dependent dynamic because you need each other’s strengths. Your soulmate can be impatient when it comes to your outgoing nature. This can also become a major source of conflict. The on-off relationship will teach you to fight for the one relationship that is important to you and not to be flighty in romance.
Next Lifetime: Your soulmate will easily spot you because you might become a celebrity or a public figure. However, you may not end up together but may get to know one another in some manner or form.
VIRGO
You
Loving and deeply passionate Virgo has a heart for almost everyone. You like to build relationships for the long term. Your ideal relationship is based on friendship, equal give and take, trust, compassion, and mutual beliefs and values. You want someone who mirrors you. When you commit, you bare even your soul to your partner and you expect the same from them, although sometimes expectations like this brings disappointments. You are practical and down to earth but your utopian ideal of relationship may seem hard to achieve by your partner, which can lead to frustrations to both parties. You are nostalgic and your penchant to look back to the past can also benefit to mend broken relationships.
Them
This person is strong and an achiever. They fight for you through thick and thin. Their unique characteristics fit your ideal of romantic love of fairy tales, knights in shining armor or a fair maiden. They can be the type that will sweep you off your feet because of your cautious and calculated nature, their brisk actions can pre-empt any second guessing from your end about taking the relationship. They are intelligent and are self-made.
Challenge
Your union will teach you to be trusting and to lower your guard. It will also teach you to share your burdens to someone else and to ask help and not be self-contained.
Next Lifetime: Your meeting will be an elusive one. There will be a series of missed opportunities to meet each other or come together. Nevertheless, you will be paired with someone who may have qualities similar to those of your real soulmate, which will, subconsciously, remind you of the lessons you learned from your past lifetimes with them.
LIBRA
You
Having undergone a few failed relationships or unrequited love, you, Libra at times come to a point that you are giving up on love. While you are wondering what makes your relationships fail, part of you just wants to leave all up to fate and stay single. Is there love for Libra? The reason why love is not coming to you is because you give off the vibe that you are closed off emotionally; That you are not available and not really needing to be in a relationship. You are self-sufficient, Libra and you seem to have all the answers to your woes. People around you cannot gauge you and how to approach you with an offer. You are good at masking your romantic and physical desires with aloofness or appearing unemotional or stern.
Them
Your soulmate is observing you from a distance. They do not see how they can fit into your life. You may be aware of their existence but you are ignoring them. When they approach you, you put up boundaries. There are a few admirers who are attracted to your charm. They see you as head strong and challenging. While they may be repelled by your demeanor, they cannot keep away from you for too long.
Challenge
Your soulmate knows that you are lonely inside. They see how you are isolating yourself and thus, they want to help you ease out of your cocoon. They may stay briefly in your life to help you in your life’s journey and disappear once they see that you are already settled. If you, Libra, do not start opening up to love, to trust again, you will just push away your soulmate.
Next Lifetime: You will actively seek your soulmate and may even ask help from friends to pair you up with available common friends. But the one who you must end up with will be someone who will be known to you, a neighbor, a colleague, a close friend or a childhood friend.
SCORPIO
You
You are mysterious and that is your charm. Sometimes you take advantage of this charm to draw people to you. You are also astute and take seriously your boundaries. It is not hard to tell that you always have your guards up. People respect you and at the same time are intimidated by you. Scorpios are blunt and straightforward in their words. You want others to explain their side first before giving them a yes or a no answer. Scorpios value time and are not hesitant to severe ties that no longer serve their purpose or are bringing them down. Your words carry a sense of finality that’s why you are not quick to judge, at least, verbally. Although you trust your instincts as well as your first impression especially on people you deal with.
Them
Like you, they are astute. You can be partners in crime because they understand your darkness, your secretiveness, your need for control. They can be manipulative too and are masters in business dealings or in any ventures that can give them power or influence or abundance. They know that these things can advance them in life. Both of you complement one another’s view about power.
Challenge
You both seek independence and space yet when you meet each other, you start to feel drawn to one another and cannot let go. One becomes weak without the other and loses control, especially of emotions and thoughts. Together you keep each other’s emotions in check. Both bring balance, calm and direction to each other. Both temper each other’s intensity so that you can be nurturing and motivating rather than destructive and unnerving to others.
Next Lifetime:
You will meet as distant relatives. You may forge a romantic relationship that will be full of challenges, disapproval, or conflicts. You could have different religious beliefs. Your union might not be traditional or conventional.
SAGITTARIUS
You
You are determined. You pursue your goals regardless of the odds. You take charge and hold yourself accountable for your every action. You are non-conventional in your ways and tend to take the road less travelled. You follow your own rules that by this, you learn lessons the harder way. You have grand dreams but sometimes you feel you are not moving forward or as fast as you want to be.
Them
They bring tremendous changes in your life for the good and bad. They also test your beliefs, patience and stand on situations. They bring to light your weaknesses so that you find your hidden strengths. You might have had relationships in the past that end up in disappointments and bitterness. Your soulmate, although not your ideal type brings you clarity about yourself; they share your aspirations in life. They help you build and gain stability in life. They show you the easier route to situations. You may resist this person once too often but you cannot deny that they make your life less complicated.
Challenge
You are paired together to overhaul your old beliefs so that you can build a sturdier foundation for the future. Your strong partnership and your devised ways towards a strong foundation will leave a legacy to your future generations. You depend on each other’s strengths and your differences in upbringing help in strengthening your bond because you learn from each other. You innovate your ways of doing things as you grow older.
Next Lifetime: You will meet in an institutional setting or in a University. Your camaraderie will develop into a romantic relationship over time. There will share some commonality with each other like name, birthplace, favorite music or reading material, food culture or genealogy.
CAPRICORN
You
Undoubtedly, you seek for stability and security not only in the material but also in relationships. The only thing is that in your pursuit of green pastures, your primary relationships are being overlooked, neglected. You also tend to seek advices from many people instead of relying on your intuition. You heed the advice of someone who you feel is more successful than you are, even though they are not privy to your personal situation. You tend to form unrealistic expectations about your associates including romantic partners. Most of the time and in your after wit, you realize you do not see the bigger picture in situations because you initially focus on trivialities or outer appearances.
Them
Your soulmate is practical, frugal and hard working. They are not frivolous and may even be introverts. They are close to their families. They may not have the highest educational attainment or the most glamorous jobs in the world but their make a living decently and honestly.
Challenge
Your soulmate teaches you the lesson of going back to your spirituality, to your sense of purpose. Their presence in your life pulls you back to your nature of simplicity, of groundedness and enjoying the basics. They teach you to appreciate the beauty of self-reliance and sustainability, of quiet and self-reflection. They teach you that being with people who are loud, impractical, empty and envious is dragging you down to an empty life and instability.
Next Lifetime: You and your partner will be in an arranged marriage; or you two will meet in an unrestricted yet temporary community like shared spaces, camps, holiday villas, or even religious cloisters.
For entertainment purposes only.
